Fertility and Purity Culture

In this episode, Rebecca discussing the second most important part of a woman’s identity in purity culture: fertility.

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How To Have An Induction Without Pain Medication

This is a topic that I don’t discuss often. I tend to shy away from discussing how I gave birth because I find that childbirth and, really, parenting in general, is turned in to a competition in our society. Some women think they are superior for breastfeeding, or having a “natural birth” or what have you. Even non-parent members of society can fall prey to these types of attitudes, leveling their expectations of pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting at unsuspecting, emotionally vulnerable mothers. I refuse to participate in the “my horse is bigger than your horse” comparison game that many women play, which lends itself to being silent on how I gave birth.

In this case, I chose to break my silence speak up in hopes of offering support and encouragement. This is my story on how I had an emergency induction without an epidural or stadol. I hope it can encourage a few of my friends (and readers) who are nearing the end stages of their pregnancies and want to be prepared for the possibility of having an induction.

I had an emergency induction out of necessity. I know this situation can be scary, especially if you were expecting to have an uneventful birth, but emergency inductions don’t have to be a bad thing. I was induced for several different medical problems that I had throughout my pregnancy…

How To Have An Induction Without Pain Medication

Preggosaurus – Fun and Silly Stories from Pregnancy

Y’all, there was a tornado in December when I was pregnant, my husband was out of town on a business trip/training and I was ALL ALONE in the middle of Wal-Mart with loud thunderclaps amplified from the metal roof and scaring the crap out of my gestating son. It took a twenty-minute frantic drive home to access YouTube and Carol of the Bells to calm him down. I was sore for a week.

Listen to the rest of the stories here 😉

Kidney Stones Vs. Chilbirth

What Happens When I Am 4 Days Late (And All My Friends Are Pregnant)

How To Lose Pregnancy Weight

Hint: it didn’t include special drinks, supplements and fad diets. This probably isn’t what you think…I think focusing on weight loss postpartum can be stupid and dangerous.

How I Got Back To Pre-Pregnancy Weight

We’ve Been Published On The Huffington Post!

Hi there folks! 🙂

You all know I am easily excitable, but today it is 100% justified! We’ve been published on The Huffington Post! ❤

Please go check it out, comment and share the article!

It is all because of your readership and support that this was accomplished, so thank you!

Read the post here: An Unlikely Friendship Between a Pregnant Collegiate and a Gentle Black Man

Love you all!

New Crunchy Mom

Hyperemesis Gravidarum

Hi there! 🙂

I had Hyperemesis Gravidarum during my pregnancy and I wrote about it on a friend’s blog today.

“I felt detached from my body, I had no control over what I ate because my body forcefully expelled nearly everything. I felt like I was failing my baby and, at the same time, I felt an intense bitterness towards him.”

What Kate Middleton And I Have In Common



I Wish I Had A Doula

Hi there! 🙂

One of my friends, who just so happens to now be a doula, wrote about her first birth on New Crunchy Mom today!

What I wanted, was for my husband to tell the nurse to leave me alone. I wanted a quiet place to labor and manage my own birth! I wanted some counter pressure on my back and some cold rags for my forehead! I wanted something to drink! (FORGET ABOUT ICE CHIPS!!!)

I Wish I Had A Doula

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